qemu: Record names of domain which uses the shared disk in hash table

qemu: Record names of domain which uses the shared disk in hash table

The hash entry is changed from "ref" to {ref, @domains}. With this, the
caller can simply call qemuRemoveSharedDisk, without afraid of removing
the entry belongs to other domains. qemuProcessStart will obviously
benifit from it on error codepath (which calls qemuProcessStop to do
the cleanup).