qemu: set default vhost-user ifname

qemu: set default vhost-user ifname

Based on work of Mehdi Abaakouk <sileht@sileht.net>.

When parsing vhost-user interface XML and no ifname is found we
can try to fill it in in post parse callback. The way this works
is we try to make up interface name from given socket path and
then ask openvswitch whether it knows the interface.

Signed-off-by: Michal Privoznik <mprivozn@redhat.com>