Return count of callbacks when registering callbacks

Return count of callbacks when registering callbacks

When registering a callback for a particular event some callers
need to know how many callbacks already exist for that event.
While it is possible to ask for a count, this is not free from
race conditions when threaded. Thus the API for registering
callbacks should return the count of callbacks. Also rename
virDomainEventStateDeregisterAny to virDomainEventStateDeregisterID

* src/conf/domain_event.c, src/conf/domain_event.h,
  src/libvirt_private.syms: Return count of callbacks when
  registering callbacks
* src/libxl/libxl_driver.c, src/libxl/libxl_driver.c,
  src/qemu/qemu_driver.c, src/remote/remote_driver.c,
  src/remote/remote_driver.c, src/uml/uml_driver.c,
  src/vbox/vbox_tmpl.c, src/xen/xen_driver.c: Update
  for change in APIs