Implement virDomainUpdateDeviceFlags API in all drivers with media change

Implement virDomainUpdateDeviceFlags API in all drivers with media change

To allow the new virDomainUpdateDeviceFlags() API to be universally
used with all drivers, this patch adds an impl to all the current
drivers which support CDROM or Floppy disk media change via the
current virDomainAttachDeviceFlags API

* src/qemu/qemu_driver.c, src/vbox/vbox_tmpl.c,
  src/xen/proxy_internal.c, src/xen/xen_driver.c,
  src/xen/xend_internal.c: Implement media change via the
  virDomainUpdateDeviceFlags API
* src/xen/xen_driver.h, src/xen/xen_hypervisor.c,
  src/xen/xen_inotify.c, src/xen/xm_internal.c,
  src/xen/xs_internal.c: Stubs for Xen driver entry points